Perfect Flavor

Just ask my kids…I am ALL about making up new baking recipes at home, and giving them funny names! I’m here to inspire all of you to begin your very own journeys of creating real, “family-secret” recipes for baked goods and breads that can get passed on from generation to generation. Too often, we all love a recipe our mothers made, that was said to have come from our grandmother’s grandmother’s grandmother. How deflating is it to discover, then, that this favorite recipe actually came from the back of a box or soup can? I know I, for one, love the tradition that baking foods and desserts from scratch holds in my home, and I want desperately to educate everyone out there that family recipes can in fact be created NOW for all of the generations to come.

It’s easy to start! Take a favorite recipe from any book, say a Chocolate Chip Cookie recipe from the Joy of Cooking. Try it out as the recipe states, make notes about what you would like to change (ex. more salt, less salt, more brown sugar for a molasses taste, crunchier (more butter), chewier (more eggs), etc.) and with your next recipe, change your ingredients a tad, and remark on how well you liked your own changes. Over time, you WILL develop your very own family recipe for Chocolate Chip Cookies that is individually yours, one that your family will ask for with mouths watering time and time again.

Incidentally, this is something we constantly do for savory recipes. We are hesitant to do this with baking because we have always been told that baking is a science and we must follow every direction exactly. This is true for candy especially, but please note that not following an ingredient list or method exactly will not result in baking ruin—JUST a different cake, cookie, mousse: whatever the product may be. For example, using room temperature butter and creaming it with sugar will result in a very different cake texture-wise than melting butter and folding it into your batter will. You might actually come to find, however, that you prefer the texture of the melted butter cake to the creamed butter variety. This is all about experimentation—and all of your results should still be incredibly edible!

Once you’ve mastered the “Recipe Doctoring Stage,” might I suggest moving on to something a little more daring? Now, what I am about to introduce can be a little daunting for baking renegade newcomers. But let’s give it a go…how about writing your own recipe entirely BASED on your preexisting knowledge of baking ingredients and the role they play in the foods we bake? Here’s a great example of something I just conjured up a few days ago out of baking excitement and pregnancy hunger pangs for crumb cake.

Every time I make a crumb cake out of a book, I’m never happy with the recipe. I know what I want: moist, cake-like, light (not dense), sweet and salty, and a realyl good streusel on top. I woke up on Saturday morning with, yet again, a strong desire for crumb cake, but had trouble with the idea of getting out of bed to make a so-so cake. SO!…I decided I would make up my own recipe. Now, when you do this, the first thing to do is to get out a pad of paper and pencil and make note of your ingredients and process. This is so that you can keep track of your recipe, no matter how bad or great it comes out! If you’re not so happy with your results, at least you have a platform from which to build off of.

So, I used my knowledge of pound cake (the idea that you use a pound of flour, pound of sugar, pound of butter, hence the name “Pound Cake”…this may not be the exact recipe, but you get the picture…) and translated that idea into a crumb cake recipe, in which I used the theme of “TWO” of everything…hence my rather creative name, “Two Cake.” My results? Unbelievable! This is a family treasure, for sure! Also, I can rest assured that no other family has this exact recipe. Except, now I’m going to share…so scratch that last part=)

TWO CAKE

preheat oven to 375 degrees F

Combine:

2 cups unbleached all-purpose flour

2 teaspoons leavening (1 tsp baking soda, 1 tsp baking powder)

2 half teaspoons salt (1/2 for now, half for streusel)

In a separate bowl, combine:

2 eggs

2 half cups dairy (1/2 cup sour cream, 1/2 cup whole milk)

2 half cups sugar (1/2 cup brown sugar, 1/2 cup granulated sugar)

2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract

Melt butter and set aside:

2 sticks butter (1.5 sticks melted, retain half a stick and cube it, reserving for streusel)

Cake Process:

Combine dry and wet ingredients with a whisk, reserving butter and fold in gently with a rubber spatula until butter is incorporated. Set batter aside, which will help to aerate…my sneaky little tip is that melted butter, folded in to cooler ingredients, will actually fluff up your batter if you let it sit on the counter for 10 minutes.

Streusel

In a food processor, combine…

2 half cups pecans or walnuts

2 teaspoons cinnamon

your remaining 1/2 tsp salt

1/4 cup flour (ok…not “TWO” but no one’s perfect)

1/2 cup brown sugar (ok…not “TWO” but no one’s perfect)

remaining half stick of butter, cubed

Process until mixture is in medium-fine crumbles

POUR batter into a buttered 9×9 brownie pan or glass baking dish, top with all streusel, and bake for 30-45 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out moist but clean.

A great thing about this recipe is that you can eat almost right away.  Allow to cool for just 5 minutes, then cut straight out of the pan into squares and serve warm.  This cake can be stored with aluminum foil to cover at room temp for 4 days.  It just gets better with time, but should be served either room temp or warmed in a 350 degree oven.  IF you want to keep this cake around longer, either refrigerate or freeze in wrapped aluminum foil for easy reheating.

Hope you like this cake as much as I do.  What’s next?  Maybe there is a THREE CAKE in my future…

Yes, that’s right.  I’m in labor.  Typing a post.  While in labor, I’ve also gone grocery shopping, picked up kids from school, cooked dinner, practiced yoga, and more.  How is this possible, you ask?  If I were you and not in labor, I would be asking the same thing.  Whenever I heard of women in labor, they always sounded like they were in too much distress and discomfort to do anything but moan.  Well, as it turns out, there’s a side of labor that is JUST NOT DISCUSSED.  We’re talking about prodromal labor.  And I am here to say, while every woman is quite different in how they respond to and experience prodromal labor, my experience has been, dare I say, pleasant?  Perhaps that’s a deceiving word, but compared to what I thought labor would feel like, I am so relieved to know that, now feeling labor, I am quite comfortable with its pace, physicality, and more.

First of all, what is prodromal labor?  Well, because few books even offer this vocab word up in their indexes, what I’ve had to do is look into this side of labor online, referencing other laboring women’s and doulas’ experiences.  Basically, leading up to the day that a woman’s baby is born, she experiences a wide range of different contraction-like symptoms.  (Do keep in mind that some women are either not aware of these contractions or simply do not experience them.)  Braxton Hicks are “painless” practice contractions in which the uterus tightens and releases sporadically beginning in the second trimester, but for some women, especially, it seems, those who experience prodromal labor, Braxton Hicks (BH) occur at the onset of pregnancy or in the first trimester, and continue through the entire pregnancy.  This was the case with me.  Also, BH can be accompanied by lower abdominal cramping.  My midwife made sure I knew that if I ever began to experience cramping along with my BH, to call her immediately.  (While my false labor began around week 31, my prodromal labor, looking back, did not start until week 32.)  Once I began to experience this cramping with contractions, around week 32, I called my midwife and was asked to come in to have an internal exam.  At the time, my cervix was long, hard, and closed.  This was two weeks ago.  Also, this was not accompanied by bleeding of any kind.  If you experience bleeding, call your practitioner immediately.

Closer to the baby’s due date, if BH pick up and begin to simulate real labor, they are known as false labor.  Different entirely is what is known as prodromal labor.  While false labor is irregular, typically painless, and stops when a woman eats, drinks, walks, rests or bathes, prodromal labor is the opposite and much closer in its appearance to real labor.  In fact, most women who experience prodromal labor say there is nothing false about it!  After three weeks of prodromal labor, I have finally caved and started to refer to myself as being in labor, albeit early, early labor, but labor nonetheless.  Here’s why:

Prodromal labor is regularly timed contractions, or if not that, then at least they do not stop when one follows the Bradley Method principles of eating, drinking, walking, resting, or bathing.  In fact, prodromal labor can often pick up when one engages in activity, which is how I first clued myself in to the fact that what I was experiencing was not, in fact, false labor.  Also, prodromal labor is accompanied by a range of low-grade pain.  From menstrual-like cramps and diarrhea-like cramps to slightly toe-curling pangs, no matter your pain tolerance, it is obvious that the contractions experienced in prodromal labor are different from regular BH. Also, a woman can experience low back, groin, and upper thigh pain when having a prodromal contraction.   Prodromal labor can also bring on nausea, a lack of appetite, fatigue and weakness, which is why it is SO very important to still eat, drink, and rest throughout this process.  Finally, prodromal labor can last a couple of days or a few weeks.  From my research, I have found that it is more rare for a woman to experience this kind of labor for weeks leading up to the birth of her baby, but I am going on 3 weeks now, so I am a testament to its possibility.  Also, a woman who has experienced prodromal labor with all three of her births is an EXCELLENT resource in understanding and relating to this experience.  Check out Sarah’s FrogBlog.  I have found great comfort in reading her pages and pages of first-hand prodromal experience.  She has made me feel like I am not alone, and hopefully she’ll help you or someone you know feel the same.

While Sarah’s contractions were more sporadic and mine are more regular, we can both understand the experience of prodromal labor in the way she so intelligently puts it in her blog, hence her blog’s title.  Being in prodromal labor is like being a frog in a cold pot of water that begins to boil at a slow and steady rate.  By the time you’re in active labor, or in boiling water, it’s very hard to tell, since you’ve become so accustomed to labor’s sensations.  This is highly different from the majority of women out there, who wake up with relatively strong contractions that lead within a day’s time to the birth of their baby.  I think one could look at prodromal labor (and I’ve certainly read plenty of accounts) as a horrible, painful punishment.  Already, frequently when I’ve reached out to friends to tell them of my prodromal experience, they all respond saying how sorry they are that I’m in so much pain.  Funny, though, that I never mentioned the word “pain” in my correspondence with them.  For me, prodromal labor is like a mediocre period, nothing more, albeit a tad annoying and confusing.  The way I see it, as far as a first pregnancy goes, I am beyond THRILLED that my body actually knows what to do!  I feel secure, comforted, and excited to know that this baby and I are working together.  My concerns simply lie in the fact that I won’t know when to actually call my midwife to go in to the hospital, as I most likely will be unable to go by the typical signposts: either emotional or timing-wise.  Even with my Bradley Method classes behind me, when I first began experiencing prodromal labor, my experienced Bradley teacher was even stumped.  I am now sharing my experience with her so she can share it with others.  On the upside, I have heard of women, who after much prodromal labor, are able to deliver their babies in a few short hours.  This, known as precipitous birth, is rare, but is known to happen with prodromal laborers.

If I happened to go by what my midwife would like to see when I make that call, announcing my real labor, then I would have called days ago.  When I first started experiencing prodromal labor, I was not timing the contractions.  Over the past week I have been periodically timing my contractions, and as of two days ago my contractions were 14 minutes apart when resting and 4 minutes apart when walking slowly.  Some were more intense (I hate to use the word painful) than others.  Some I could talk and walk through, others I could not.  ALL were completely different in how long they lasted.  The average for me is between 1:30 and 2:30 minutes.  Those that are either weak or less than 30 seconds I do not even time or count, just as Sarah has done.  I was doing this before I started reading her blog, too!  It just felt right to only count the ones that seemed to be doing something.  As of last night, I awoke to strong cramping and contractions, and went to take a bath from 2 am to 5 am.  I then lay back in bed and was able to fall asleep until 7 am, when I became aware of the cramping again.  (Just to note: this cramping is lower abdominal cramping, like menstrual cramps, and is accompanied by painless BH contractions/tightening in a melon-sized circle around my belly button.)  Upon waking, and telling my husband what was going on, he suggested we time them, and when we did found the contractions to be 3-4 minutes apart lasting 1-2 minutes.  Now, according to my midwife, if this were to go on for 2 hours, I owe her a call, but I just don’t “feel” like it’s time.  It’s already been going on for three hours, and while I’m still lying in bed, I just don’t feel like the baby is ready to make an appearance.  Just in case, I do have my husband on call!  Could this be the frog-in-water scenario?

I also want to point out, in as great a detail as possible, what else I feel when I experience my contractions, so that you women out there who are wondering what it is you’re feeling or experiencing can relate your process to mine.  So, on a small contraction, I merely feel tightening around my belly button (which I sometimes have to feel with my hand to make sure is there) and dull lower cramping.  For a stronger contraction, I often know one is coming because I immediately feel an overwhelming amount of pressure on my rectum and urethra, like I’ve “gotta go!”  This is then accompanied by tightening and lower cramping.  Finally, if the contraction is really bad, I have all of the above symptoms, plus pain on one side of my cervix (usually for me the left) accompanied by nausea and a dull aching in my left groin, left hip and upper left thigh (sometimes my low back into my butt).  I even get a little shaky, just the way I used to when my period came on fast and I got cramps before I had time to take advil and let it kick in.  For the really bad ones, if I’m walking, I feel a tugging from behind my belly button down to my vagina, and I must stop walking or talking and hold onto the underside of my big belly.  Also, my stool has been much looser, which is a typical sign that body is clearing out the bowels for the commencement of labor.

Finally, I must state that I have suffered from Endometriosis from the onset of my period at age 11.  I have no idea if the Endo or the young age at which I got my period are any indication as to why I am experiencing prodromal labor, but I would love to hear feedback from others with this same history.  I have often thought labor would be less “painful” of an experience for me due to the pain I became used to experiencing with my Endo, so it IS possible, I guess, that this is why prodromal labor is not as bad for me.  I do not, however, want to hinder anyone else’s experience of pain in this matter, as everyone is just so different.

Just to be clear, as well, all of my symptoms are happening quite early in this pregnancy.  I am 34 weeks 1 day pregnant, which my midwife has said is not ideal for going into labor, but is not too early that she will stop my labor once it has started.  Therefore, I could be in the hospital tonight or in 6 weeks.  I will say that my women’s intuition has always said this baby would come early.  There have been many times, in fact, when my husband and I have questioned our dates, since this kind of prodromal labor does not usually start til 36 weeks, and if I am 4 weeks more pregnant than my records state, I would have been exactly 36 weeks when my labor started.  I believe we shall soon see…

Long before we got Perfect Flavor up and running, making fresh ice cream, cheese and yogurt, we were making yogurt at home.  There are many, many reasons why we thought that making our very own yogurt at home was important.  From a crunchy point of view, we loved the idea of making lots of our own food from scratch.

From a healthy point of view, we were discouraged for some time over the state of commercial yogurt.  Turn over almost any commercial yogurt in the store and you’ll see ingredients way beyond just milk and cultures (which are the only ingredients that should be in there!).  You’ll see ingredients like gelatin, pectin, corn starch, powdered skim milk, chemical dyes, HFCS and more!  All of these ingredients are completely unnecessary to the production of yogurt, but are added by big, BIG commercial producers of yogurt to ensure a “consistent” product every time that is smooth, thick, and creamy.  What does this mean exactly?  Well, it means that dairy products are inconsistent by nature.  Depending on the type of cow, the ever changing fat content of the milk depending on the cow’s diet and the season in which the cow was milked, and the cultures used.  In fact, yogurt made with just milk and cultures can often turn out slightly different every time it is made.  PLUS, real yogurt, like the kind you find in Europe or the kind you make at home, is MOST often much thinner than the kind we’re used to from Yoplait, Dannon, or other brands.  Adding unnecessary ingredients like pectin, gelatin or other stabilizers is only added to increase thickness, and like I mentioned before, consistency.  If you see a yogurt on the shelves with any other ingredients besides milk and cultures, then in my opinion it is not a true yogurt.

When we began making yogurt and selling it at Perfect Flavor, we encountered almost immediately many customers who were very confused when they saw how “thin” our yogurt consistency was.  It was only when we encountered chefs, the family members of dairy farmers, europeans, and a small number of educated local consumers that we got the response we were looking for.  Finally, they said, here was a yogurt that was the real thing!  And we agreed.  Now, the question is, how can you achieve this real yogurt at home for less money and more fun than buying it at the store?  Easy.

There are two main ways to make yogurt at home.  The first is using an incubator: a small piece of equipment that you can purchase for little money online.  The second is using an oven.  I have used both methods and find them to both be effective!

I first came across the act of making yogurt at home using an incubator when I lived in France.  Needless to say, I was in absolute awe of the fact that I could watch my French hostess pour milk mixed with culture into small glass jars placed in an incubator at night, and in the morning have delicious yogurt in time for breakfast.

When back from France but visiting my dear friend, Samira’s, Bengali mother in Toronto, Ontario, I was curious about the delicious yogurt we ate at her home at almost every meal.  It was then that Samira’s mom taught me how to make homemade yogurt in the easiest way possible: at home with the help of an oven.

For the incubator method, your equipment needs are a little higher, therefore you’ll want to give yourself a week or so to procure your necessary tools.  You’ll need a medium saucepan, a working thermometer whose range starts at at least 100 degrees, great quality raw milk or organic milk (the less processed and pasteurized, the better!), an 8 ounce cup of plain, unsweetened yogurt as your starter (choose Brown Cow, Stoneyfield Farm, or Seven Stars–better yet: a local brand is BEST, but remember to look for the brand with the right ingredients.  You do not want to start your yogurt off on the wrong foot with unnecessary ingredients) and of course an incubator.  My current favorite yogurt incubator is Euro Cuisine.  For this model, make sure to purchase a set of extra glasses on amazon.com so you can make a batch of yogurt while one is still in the fridge.  I like this model in particular because not only is it easy to use, but it’s got glass jars.  With the constant questions raised with the health risks of plastics, especially plastics that are coming in contact with your food while being heated, go with glass and rest assured that you’re not adding any phthalates into your diet.  This incubator is also very easy to clean and has only two buttons: an on/off button and a timer to use for setting how long your yogurt incubates for.  Here’s the recipe:

Take 1 quart of milk, place in your saucepan and heat until the milk reaches 110 degrees F.  This will happen sooner than you think, so stay near the stove and keep an eye on your thermometer.  Remove your milk from the stove and have a pitcher on hand.  Spoon all 8 ounces (1 cup) of your yogurt into the pitcher, then little by little, add the warm milk while whisking until you have a smooth yogurt starter/milk combination.  The small amount of yogurt you have added will be very happy to be mixed in with the warm milk, and once incubated, the cultures present in the mixture will begin to multiply and thrive, turning your milk into full-on delicious yogurt.  Pour your milk/culture mixture into each glass jar, tighten lids, and place in the incubator.  Allow to incubate for as little as 10 hours and as long as 16 hours (the more time the yogurt is in the incubator up to 16 hours, the thicker it will be and the stronger the taste).  I make this yogurt after dinner, allow it to incubate overnight, and place in the fridge in the morning.  The yogurt is ready to be eaten once it is done incubating-at room temp or cold.  Just for your own personal knowledge, the incubator keeps the yogurt at a constant 108 degrees F.  Do not be worried about food poisoning here!  Even though you wouldn’t normally leave milk out on the counter overnight, introducing yogurt culture actually combats the growth of negative bacteria that might make you sick.  Think of it this way: yogurt culture is good bacteria that kills off the bad bacteria naturally.  This does not mean that you would want to never refrigerate your yogurt, just that in the 10-16 hour window that it’s not refrigerated is not going to hurt you.  In fact, those cultures present (probiotics) aid in digestion and help the digestive system to break down all of the food you eat in a healthy, natural way.  This yogurt, once refrigerated, will last in your fridge for up to one month, however this all depends on the freshness of your milk and yogurt starter used.

Now, for those of you interested in trying your hand at yogurt making before committing to a piece of equipment, making it at home in your oven is a great way to start.  Here’s what you’ll need: an oven, a heating pad, a towel, mason jars with lids, a saucepan, a thermometer, milk and 8 ounces of yogurt culture.  Here’s the recipe:

Repeat process above by bringing 1 quart of milk to 110 degrees F, removing it from the stove and adding yogurt culture and milk together in a pitcher.  Meanwhile, prepare your oven: Turn your heating pad on its lowest setting and place the heating pad in your oven to gradually warm the oven.  Make sure you can still create a draft-free environment for your yogurt by ensuring that you can close the oven door with the cord of the heating pad sticking out the side.  Clean your thermometer and place it inside the oven but not on the heating pad.  This is to make sure your oven is maintaining the proper amount of heat for incubation.  Your desired temperature is 108 degrees.  If this means that you’ll need to increase the heat to medium, then do so accordingly.  Pour your milk/starter mixture into your clean mason jars, loosely screw on lids, and place in oven on top of your towel but not directly on the heating pad.  The heating pad should just be sitting somewhere in the oven.  Put a note on the outside with not only the time you put your yogurt in, BUT that NO ONE should turn on oven while your yogurt is incubating.  If the yogurt reaches 120 degrees or higher, the culture will die and you will not make yogurt.  This yogurt, if made at night, will also be ready in the morning, however you may want to experiment with it to let it go a little longer than 10-16 hours in order for you to reach your desired consistency.  Periodically before bed, check the thermometer in your oven by gently opening the oven door, or better yet, just by looking through the window, to make sure the temp is staying at an even 108 degrees F.  If you must open the oven door, do not jostle your mason jars.  Yogurt does not like to be moved at all while it is incubating.  If it does move, the consistency will be chunky and not smooth.

Troubleshooting:

If your yogurt, once incubated, seems to thin, refrigerate it first and the yogurt should become thicker in the fridge, especially if it’s got fat in it.

If your yogurt has lumps, this means that when you combined your milk and yogurt starter, you did not whisk thoroughly enough and distribute the cultures throughout the milk.

Any other questions?  Contact me!

We like to add a bit of organic sugar, raw honey, fresh fruit or wheat germ to our freshly made yogurt.  Have fun with flvoring yours OR just eat it plain!

Here’s to your health!!!

Want a smoother smoothie? Tired of those stubborn icy pieces that don’t get quite blended in? Try this tip that I learned from my good friend, Kristie, when we both had to get to work at 4:30 am and needed to bring along a quick, easy, and healthy breakfast:

Freeze your fruit! That’s right, instead of using fresh fruit, place your freshly purchased fruit, like blackberries, raspberries, strawberries, bananas, etc. into the freezer after washing and shaking dry. Place the fruit in a gallon size ziploc bag or rubbermaid container and allow to freeze overnight before making that morning smoothie. If, by chance, you prefer to buy locally grown fruit when it’s in season, then when strawberries are in season, for example, buy enough for the year and freeze the strawberries in smaller containers, like ziploc bags, that you can easily shake to separate the frozen fruit if it’s stuck together. Also, as an extra tip, let your fruit thaw in its bag, in a larger bowl, overnight in the fridge and what you’ll be left with is delicious all-natural juice that can be used to also flavor your smoothies or salad dressings. Strawberry balsamic, anyone?

Anyway, as usual when it comes to food, I digress…

Here’s the Smoother Smoothie Recipe:

Combine 2 cups frozen fruit with…

1 cup yogurt*

1/2 cup milk*

add a bit of organic cane sugar or local honey if desired. However, in-season fruit is perfectly sweet on its own!

*as many of you know, I am a real dairy girl, and therefore love milk, yogurt, and cheese in its most unadulterated form. Therefore, I use whole milk (full fat) everything! It’s much more decadent, not to mention that full fat dairy has the right kind of fat in it that is truly healthy.

Blend in a blender until smooth and eat right away. The frozen fruit will give your smoothie the chill that you’re normally going for when adding ice if eaten immediately. Also, the texture of your smoothie will be rich, creamy, and thick, as opposed to a thinner smoothie made with fresh, not frozen, fruit.

No doubt my friend, Gleamer: the Smoothie Queen, has already discovered this tip for making smoother smoothies for her beautiful kids who, lucky ducks, get to enjoy smoothies all the time. Gleamer, if you’ve got any more tips, I’m sure we’d love to hear ‘em!

There’s bad, better, and best as far as I’m concerned when it comes to cleaning products that I keep in my home.

I think it’s safe to say that products that fit into my “bad” category are the cleaning products and brands that most of the US population uses in their homes. Things like bleach, Formula 401, Windex and especially Clorox cleaning products like bleach, wipes, and sprays. We stopped using these products long ago. In fact, when I met my husband I was still using them to clean up my apartment and it was my husband who introduced his method of natural cleaning, but we’ll get to that later.

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In the meantime, harsh chemical cleaners, like Clorox brand products, are toxic and are known to be hazardous both for humans AND their pets. In fact, if you’re wondering why Fluffy always seems to piddle in the same spot, annoyingly so, which requires you to constantly be on hands and knees cleaning, consider this: the smell and toxicity of the product you’re using is repulsive to her, which is why she is using the strong ammonia in her urine to blot it out and bring her habitat back to some sort of controlled normalcy when it comes to comfort. And do not be fooled by Clorox’s new “green cleaning” line of products. Unless the ingredients are words you both understand and can pronounce, they are not natural.

So if you don’t want to have to poison your pets or lock away your cleaning supplies from your toddling tots, what other option do you have? This brings me to my “better” category…

For things like dish washing detergent, clothing detergent, and dish soap, using a natural cleaner, like a product from Seventh Generation , which refers to a Native American ideal of making decisions with the philosophy in mind that whatever you decide will not only affect your generation, but will still be suitable for 7 generations to come, is the way to go. In fact, their new TV commercial hits home when it comes to the reason why folks who want a more natural approach to housecleaning turn to what Seventh Generation has to offer. They openly declare that when using their products, it is unnecessary to hold one’s breath when spritzing and spraying in order to clean. And it’s true. How often have you found yourself holding your breath when spraying some Clorox product? Seventh Generation products actually smell great. Plus, you can opt for the fragrance free varieties. BUT, you may say, “natural cleaning products are much more expensive than regular brands.” And this can be true, but here’s where the “BEST” category comes into play.

What if I told you, that for pennies, you could keep your house clean using only ONE cleaning implement? Sure, for clothes washing and dishwashing our family still uses Seventh Generation products, but for cleaning counters, dusting, cleaning mirrors and windows, and sanitizing, guess what we use as our truly multi-purpose cleaner? Vinegar!

White Distilled Vinegar that can be purchased in 1 or 2 gallon jugs is actually the answer to all of your cleaning woes. To get started it’s simple: Purchase an empty plastic spray bottle that has never before been used. (I would normally suggest reusing an old empty bottle, however mixing vinegar with bleach or ammonia can cause a chemical reaction which creates a poisonous gas, so please don’t do that. Besides, your empty bottle will last you years.) Also, buy your white distilled vinegar at the store, and fill your bottle 3/4’s of the way full with vinegar. Top it off with water from the faucet, and you’ve got a mega cleaning product that can easily wipe away grease, spaghetti sauce, dust and more without the use of harsh chemicals. Plus, one bottle usually lasts at least a few months. The tougher the stain, the easier it is to clean: simply spray on a heavy layer of your vinegar cleaner and let sit for 5 minutes, then wipe down with a clean white towel (no paper towels here!) that has been soaked in warm water.

For those of you who might be worried about the smell that vinegar imparts, simply add a few drops of your favorite essential oil, like lavender or peppermint. Even orange or eucalyptus would work nicely. We don’t mind the vinegar smell as it evaporates quickly, so for us, we like to leave our cleaner plain and simple.

Even more importantly, you may be asking yourself if vinegar really has the power to disinfect surfaces the way bleach or other harsh chemicals can. The answer is, of course, that we wouldn’t use vinegar unless it sanitized surfaces. In fact, we believe that vinegar kills enough bacteria in our kitchen with out creating a completely sterile environment, which is actually better for you and your family in the end.

In the times of hand sanitizer, bleaching kids toys, and generally being freaked out at the thought of one single germ in your house, using vinegar will not only teach you that you shouldn’t be afraid of your own kitchen, but that simpler is better. After all, can’t you see the hypocrisy in worrying about bacteria while all the while inhaling harmful chemicals?

I think the trade-off is easy to see, and swallow.

Oh boy, here we go. I am trying as hard as possible to hide my haughty laugh of incredulity as I write this up in the full coffee shop which I am presently calling my typing home. As I sat in bed enjoying my breakfast this morning…don’t worry-I got it myself, we gave our butler the day off…and while Colin was getting ready for work, a segment was advertised as coming up on The Today Show in a matter of minutes. The subject of this segment? “Are you Skinny Fat?”

Well, I thought to myself, maybe they’re finally going to discuss the body type that most of us have. You know the one. It’s where you eat right (local, sustainable, organic food) and where you take good care of yourself (exercise in ways that feel good not bad, meditate, practice yoga, run after your toddler) and, voila, you’re left with not only great self-esteem, but a body that matches your “body type.” Like me for example: after years of working so damned hard to make my body match what the media was dictating, including dieting, over-exercising, skipping meals-on purpose, and constantly worrying about those extra few pounds, I finally wised up. I met my husband, realized that I was beautiful just the way I was destined to be, and over the course of four years, began eating local, healthy food, cut processed foods out of my diet, and began practicing well-being type exercises, like yoga and pilates, AND gained 30 pounds.

Me, enjoying delicious crab,just before being told by my doctor that I am borderline obese and would be unable to conceive. I am now 25 weeks pregnant.

While most of the time I was so thankful to look and feel better, including the added perks of being more curvy, going up 3 cup sizes, and turning even more heads on the street, there were times when I would fall back in to the media trap of thinking that I was overweight. In fact, when trying to get pregnant, I was even told by my ex-gynocologist that I was too overweight to conceive (due to my height and weight, my BMI classifies me as borderline obese). I quickly changed doctors, and with my next visit at my benevolent midwife’s office, I heard the following news: A)I was at the weight that my genes, heritage, and lifestyle dictated, and that B)my weight gain over the last four years was directly related to my happiness that I had finally achieved through meeting my husband and starting my family. What a fantastic “ah-ha” moment. With that news, guess what? I was pregnant within 10 days. I think it would be foolish to assume that none of the above isn’t connected. Self acceptance equals happiness.

So, getting back to this morning’s Today Show segment on Skinny Fat, I ignorantly thought that this segment would finally bring the news to women out there that what I already knew was finally being accepted. That my “fat” was my very own “skinny.” Well, no surprise, but I was wrong.

As it turns out, Skinny Fat actually refers to women who, gasp, ARE skinny on the outside, but fat on the inside. Are question marks circling around your head, too? Sigh, here we go…

Joy Bauer, contributing health editor to The Today Show, who’s book, “Your Inner Skinny” I think says it all as far as her approach goes, claims that even though we may appear to be skinny, that really deep inside we’ve got a terrifying combination of genes and heredity brewing that actually makes us in reality, fat, according to what doctors deem to be so. She compared two women: both of whom are skinny, one of whom is skinny fat. Basically, the one who is skinny fat has never had to do much to maintain her figure. She never works out, she eats what she wants, she is what most would call “blessed with good genes.” Not so, according to Joy. In fact, because she does not “take care of herself,” even though she may appear to on the outside, she is slowly bringing on her own demise: a long, torturous, fatty death. Joy said, in fact, that now “it’s not enough to be thin” anymore. Because being thin could mean “skinny on the outside, obese on the inside.” Her “obesity” is determined by using a tool, much like a vice, to pinch the outside layer of her fat, therefore measuring the relationship of her fat to her overall weight and height. Now, for those of us out there (me four years ago), this would be exactly the news that I would not need. To be told that appearing skinny still could mean that I’m obese on the inside would throw me into a disastrous cycle of obsessive exercising followed by extreme dieting. In fact, the skinny fat woman, after hearing of her major fat issues, said that she is now going to “work hard and watch what she eats,” which we all know is code for not eating as much. It is only since recovering from my faulted ways that I can hear news like this and not go off the deep end. But imagine how many women (and men) are out there who are taking this news to heart?

As my genius husband brought up after watching this segment in disbelief, what about the women from Fiji, Hawaii, or the Inuit or Yupik Eskimos?

An Inuit Woman

A Fijian Woman

A Hawaiian Woman

What if they were subjected to this fat-pinching device? No doubt they would blow this poor skinny fat woman on The Today Show out of the water. Wouldn’t we all agree, though, that their bodies are designed based on a mixture of factors: environment, heritage and genetics? From Joy Bauer’s point of view, these women would practically be knocking on death’s door. If it were up to her, they would all be put on strict diets and exercise regimes, only to lose half of their body weight and return home, where they would be unable to function in their own societies. Do only Joy’s rules apply to Americans? And what of this poor Skinny Fat woman on The Today Show? Could her natural body type, instead of being a ticking time bomb, instead just represent her potential Nordic heritage? Why should she change to have to conform to the current ignorant standards of our current thinking when it comes to body image, health, and the desire to be thin?

The bottom line is this: we all look exactly the way we should, IF (and a big “if” it is) we allow our bodies to slowly get back to the size and shape that they were always meant to be. Instead of looking at an ex-Skinny girl and saying, “She’s really let herself go,” why don’t we look at her in admiration and hope, saying instead, “Wow, she must be really happy. Looks like she’s finally found herself.” My hope is that everyone watching The Today Show this morning can look inside themselves, instead of listening to a woman who does not know them, and ask themselves if there is anything they can change in order to get closer to achieving the body, heart, and mind that is the healthiest for them.

As I approach the birth of my first “bio” baby, and as a follow up to my previous post, “Battle of the Best Parent,” I actually laughed out loud at the profundity of this “Partnership for a Drug Free America” tv ad on TLC.

Just another reason why raising a teen is challenging.  Try standing your ground in a talk about something as serious as drug use to your teenager while being faced with eye rolls, back turning, etc.  It’s not an easy feat, but can mean the difference between life and death with your child.  Tough stuff.

This commercial really gets the message across!

Think about this: Cloth diapering is all pros and no cons.

Did you know that cloth diapering is cheaper than purchasing your regular run-of-the-mill plastic diapers? According to The Stork, a local diaper delivery service in Charlottesville, VA, even a cloth diaper service such as this can guarantee diapers at a cost of 33 cents/unit, which is the same as a unit of Huggies. This fee, to top it off, includes the diaper service itself. All one needs to do is throw a dirty diaper into a bag and wait for it to be picked up by The Stork at home. And what does this person get in return? Clean diapers, of course. Imagine how much less the cost is if you own your own cloth diapers and are washing them yourself?

And just how easy is it to wash cloth diapers? For a newborn who is nursing, it’s as simple as throwing them straight into the washing machine. For an older baby, diapers need only be rinsed in the bathtub or sink, then washed in the washing machine.

And how might we decrease the costs of cloth diapering even more? Instead of purchasing from a company that sells pre-fabbed diapers, send a cloth diaper sewing pattern to a mother, mother-in-law, or friend of a friend who sews. In all cases, offer to reimburse for all fabric costs and labor, unless of course, your friend or family member wants to offer these cute little white ones to you as a shower gift proxy. You could even ask them to modify the pattern to include a fold-over feature or a small dip near the front of the diaper for baby’s healing belly button.

Check out popular patterns here!

My mom is currently working on my diapers and I can’t wait to put them to good use!

Also, for you really easy breezy hippies out there, Gerber makes really cheap cloth diaper panels sold in packages of 4-6 that are so multi-purpose that you’re going to want them in your baby repertoire no matter what. Use them for spit-up clean ups, burp cloths, blankets, and babies who need an emergency diaper change or who are in-between sizes. Do keep in mind, though, that the sewing patterns offered above are very close to a one-size-fits-all baby, at least at the beginning. One pattern can fit a baby anywhere from 6-30 pounds!

Lest we forget that the best news to cloth diapering has got to be the next-to-zero waste factor. I think both baby and parents and sleep and breath easier knowing that their diapers are not sitting in a landfill somewhere.

Also, cloth diapered babies are less likely to develop diaper rash, as the outer layer of the diaper is made of cloth, not plastic. Plastic locks in moisture while cloth allows baby’s bum to breath!

One final tidbit: did you know that cloth diapered babies are more likely to potty train earlier than plastic-diapered babies? It’s because cloth diapers do not wick away liquid as magically as the infinite layers inside plastic diapers, therefore teaching your children a very important lesson: If they don’t like to feel wet, then they will learn how to remedy their situation naturally by using the toilet instead of the diaper. The average cloth-diapered baby is potty trained by age two.

woohoo!

this is me pregnant at 8 weeks. You can only imagine how big my belly is now...=)

Today I am 23 weeks pregnant! And what a celebration it is…

With 4.5 months of horrid morning sickness under my belt, I’ve seen a lot of improvements in my physical health in the past month. I’d like to think that my family, particularly my two teenage stepkids, ages 14 and 11(trust me, in girl years age 11 is classified in my book as a teen), are happy with my new demeanor as well. Due to my raging hormones, combined with their raging hormones, our home life has been a little less idyllic when it comes to the rocking-chair-knitting-in-front-of-the-fire-with-my-loving-children-at-my-feet picture that I often attempted to paint for myself. In fact, what pregnancy has done to me, I see now, is turn me right back into my hormonal, irritable, easy-to-anger teenage self. I can only imagine that my loving and overly-tolerant husband has had his fair share of 3 teenagers in the house. And he thought he married a beyond-her-years 26 year old. Sigh, I wish.

My pregnancy has certainly brought forth its fair share of surprising challenges when it comes to my ability to parent while at the same time growing a rather demanding (and heavenly) life inside of me. But I must say-I can take all of this. As my wise mother-in-law says quite frequently when faced with a tough situation, “This too shall pass.” And she’s right. What I’m having most difficulty with is not the often immature fighting and nagging that occurs in my house when someone forgets to flush the toilet, replace the toilet paper roll, or hang up their wet towel post-shower. I’m actually struggling most with what goes on in my little parenting/pregnancy world when I leave my house.

I feel that when I leave the comforts of my home and enter into the parent/pregnant lady environment these days, whether its a prenatal yoga class, a new moms group or other,  I am bombarded with what I’d like to call: “The Battle of the Best Parent.” Now, donning my battle armor when entering into these situations is not new to me. Being the young second wife of a man 14 years my elder, with two stepkids and an ex-wife in the mix has never been an easy fight. I guess I thought that I would feel like I had earned my stripes when, once pregnant, I could proudly tout the fact that yes, I am the mom of two teenagers and that this experience would make me ideally suited to being a parent of a newborn. After all, what other women do you know who are pregnant with their first but already have two kids at home? If anything, I should be handing out the advice, right? Wrong.

Apparently, according to almost all of the women whose children are under the age of two, I have no idea what I’m getting myself into. In fact, they even seem to think that I “have it easy.” Here’s an example:

When sitting in on my first, very large, prenatal yoga class in a room of twenty or so women, about half of whom are on their second pregnancy with an “under-24-month” old at home, we go around the class doing amicable introductions about who we are, how pregnant we are, and if we’ve got any kids at home. (I’m assuming this last offering of information is to help us feel the support of the other moms in the room; to induce a sense of empowerment and shared wisdom—boy, how wrong I am!) Everyone nods knowingly when moms express that they have a “20 month” at home and are due in a matter of months. “Wow, you’re brave!” is the response from most in the room. The instructor in particular coddling this woman with courageous euphamisms concerning the challenges she faces but the remarkable strength in which she’s approaching her situation. When it comes to me, I take a deep breath, gaze knowingly at every individual face in the room (well, not really, but you get the picture) and state that this is, in fact, my first pregnancy, but that I’ve actually got two stepkids at home, at which point the instructor begs the question: “Well, how old are they?” to which I respond, “Ages 14 and 11.” This is met with a response that again and again I am only beginning to be able to predict, much to my dismay. “A 14 year old and an 11 year old? That doesn’t count.” or “How fantastic, they can help babysit, change diapers, etc.” or “How easy it must be to have older kids.” or my personal favorite, “Teenagers practically take care of themselves!” The list of rather ignorant and condascending responses goes on and on…

Each day my husband returns home from work and I relay to him the newest response from my newest class members, to which he exclaims, “Next time that happens, you should just walk out!” It is, indeed, ignorant beyond my understanding that a woman would feel so insecure in her own role as a parent as to put down the arduous journey of another. Everyone’s got it tough, no matter how old your kids are, right? Well, maybe, but that’s not how I look at it. Instead, I accept parenting for what it is: an vastly enriching experience in which our children are our teachers. Each parent is experiencing their own set of lessons, and I am so grateful to be learning as much as I am from my kids. Of course being a parent can be hard. I have no doubt that changing diapers, tending to a crying infant, and being spit up upon are exchanges between parent and child that can be wearing no matter who you are. But what kind of karmic aftermath are you asking for if you expect that raising a teenager is a piece of cake and nothing like raising an infant or toddler.

Parenting is for a lifetime, and what I hope most for these women is that they not only accept that, but that they begin to embrace each others hard work, no matter how old the child.

After all, ironically I have more “experience” as a parent than all of them, being that, if I were to count in months how long I’ve been parenting Nick and Kate, I would have everyone beat by 26 months. And you don’t see me belittling their experience or holding that number above their heads.

If you’re the mom of a toddler and are expecting a baby, I respect your daily, hourly, and minute-by-minute hard work.

If you’re the mom of a teenager, I respect your daily, hourly, and minute-by-minute hard work.

Now, let’s just see if we can all work together.

Aebleskivers. When I came across the cast iron pan by the same name, I had never before encountered such a name and concept. What are they?

In essence, aebleskivers are pancake balls that, when cooked in oil in this very special pan, fluff up in the shape of perfect little globes that get eaten so fast once made that one can hardly keep a full plate on the table!

As seems to be usual for us, Colin and I purchased an aebleskiver pan long before they started to seemingly become popular. This past holiday season saw shelves filled with practically a different aebleskiver pan for each different recipe. I am here to say that you need just one pan and one recipe. This recipe, altered slightly to my specifications and desires, comes directly from the official Lodge Cast Iron cookbook entitled, “A Skillet Full of Traditional Southern Lodge Cast Iron Recipes & Memories.” This recipe was originally written by Sarah Kirkwood Lodge of the original Lodge family.

Here’s the recipe in all its delicious glory. You’ll find that these little pancake balls have a crispy, buttery texture on the outside with a doughnut-like, buttery, chewy texture on the inside. They really are nothing short of heavenly, and if you happen to have a group of grumpy kids or a husband who’s had a long week, there is nothing like a batch of aebleskivers to get everyone back on cloud 9!

Aebleskivers

Ingredients

4 eggs separated

2 tablespoons organic cane sugar

2 cups unbleached all purpose flour (local is best, but King Arthur red bag will work)

1/2 teaspoon salt

1 teaspoon baking powder

1 stick butter, melted

scant 2 cups whole milk

Method: please read all the way through before beginning

1. Melt butter slowly in a small saucepan and remove from heat when stick is almost melted but not quite. Swirl in the saucepan and you will have accomplished two things: melted the rest of the stick AND maintained a low enough temperature with the butter to not cook the eggs once added to the batter.

2. In the meantime, separate your eggs: yolks into a medium sized bowl, whites into the bowl of a mixer or just a separate medium bowl, making sure that your whites are free of any trace of yolk or other debris (except salt, see below), as any foreign ingredient other than the white itself will inhibit the whites’ ability to froth up and beat properly. Add the salt to your whites, which will help them beat up to an even stiffer and more stable peak.

3. Hand whisk your yolks until thickened and light in color. Add your sugar and continue to whisk until even thicker and lemon colored.

4. Combine dry ingredients (flour, baking powder) in a small bowl and retain your measuring cup in this bowl.

5. Measure milk into a glass measuring cup meant for liquid measure and set aside.

6. With your whisk in hand, begin to add dry ingredients 1/4 cup at a time and alternate with milk 1/4 cup at a time. This will aid in developing the cake-like structure of this batter. Also, and perhaps most importantly, if you’re a lump-freak like me, adding your ingredients alternatively and little by little this way will ensure that your batter will be lump free if you’re whisking vigorously as you add each ingredient.

7. Once all ingredients have been added, fold in melted butter with a large rubber spatula until just mixed.

8. In three batches, add your egg whites (which you could have had beating while preparing the batter), folding in slowly and gently.

***Now is when I like to add a little extra magic: Combine in a small cereal bowl 1/2 cup organic cane sugar with 1 teaspoon (or more depending on taste) cinnamon. Mix and set near your pan.

9. Heat your aebleskiver pan over medium heat and pour 1/2-1 teaspoon vegetable oil into each well. Allow oil to heat enough for frying. If your oil is not hot enough when you add your batter, the batter will soak up the oil before it has the chance to bake, and will be heavy and greasy. If you’re unsure of when the temperature has reached the right point, you’ll just have to do what I do: sacrifice a poor aebleskiver individual first and take a look at how it bakes, then proceed with the others.

10. I spoon out the batter with a medium-sized cookie/ice cream scoop, which helps make clean up a little easier and ensures that each ball is the same size. After the edges begin to look brown, 3 minutes or so, I use a fork to gently turn each ball over so that the batter side can form and cook. Basically, you’re going for a perfect sphere, so turning your ball over before all of the batter in the center is cooked means that the rest of the raw batter will mold to the well in the pan and thus create a perfect circle of decadence.

11. Remove aebleskivers one by one, rolling each in your cinnamon-sugar mixture until coated, then place on your breakfast dish.

12. When repeating cooking of all the batter, you may need to adjust your stove top temperature. I find that for my gas range, I must reduce the heat to low as time goes by because the pan tends to get very hot and my batter has the tendency to burn if I do not monitor the temperature very closely. Also make sure to add a new round of oil to your pan every second-third batch.

Once my first batch is done, I holler at the kids and wonderful husband to come in and eat. Usually by the time I finish each consecutive batch they are finished with the plate that came before. There are days when they are not as hungry, so I do not make all the batter into aebleskivers at once. Instead, I’ll use about half of the batter up and then make more aebleskivers the next morning or the morning after.

This batter makes about 40 pancake balls and can be kept in the fridge for up to three days.

Incidentally, a well-seasoned cast iron aebleskiver pan is the best (see my previous cast iron post), and cheapest, option. There are some nonstick options out there, which as usual, I do not trust both for their lack of long-term nonstick capabilities but also for the fact that teflon scares me. If you cannot locate the proper pan, consider this: the recipe recounted above can also be used to make waffles that are crisp on the outside and fluffy on the inside, as well as pancakes AND pancake puffs (or special pancake as my kids call it, which is aebleskiver batter baked in a buttered glass dish in a 375 degree oven until puffy and golden).

Yum, now I’m hungry!

Recipe Variations:

Want chocolate aebleskivers?  Substitute 1/8 cup cocoa for 1/8 cup flour and continue recipe like normal.

Want savory aebleskivers? How about chive & chevre?  Substitute 1/2 cup fresh chevre for 1/2 cup milk and add 1/2 cup chopped chives.  For other cheese variations, keep milk content the same and add 1/2 cup shredded hard cheese to batter.

yummy aebleskivers, pronounced "able-skivvers" according to my authoritative knowledge!=)